Is sex really pleasureful

Answer 1

Sex is pleasurable for many people if enjoyed under the right circumstances. For example if both people are in love and wish to express that love or just if there are two consenting parties who wish to enjoy physical, sexual pleasure. Sex is NOT pleasurable under certain other circumstances like when having sex under peer pressure, for money (unless you have a fetish for it or have no self-respect) or when being raped. Basically sex is usually not pleasurable if its for anything but physical and/or emotional pleasure/expression by both parties. Sex can be pleasurable for one person but not the other, but its usually much more pleasurable when both parties are enjoying it. Paradoxically, some people enjoy pain while having sex and can derive much more pleasure when feeling the opposite to pleasure at the same time as having pleasure. There are a number of fetishes similar to this, like retrainment, suffocation etc. These should only be practiced under strictly safe circumstance, again with both parties consenting and with a code word to stop if its gets too dangerous. Sex can be made more pleasurable by a number of different means. Fetishes, toys, games, clothing, stimulating substances (such as amyl nitrate) and many more. As a human being with the right to explore his/her own life you should explore your own sexuality without shame. As always, it is best to do this with the help of someone loving, understanding and sensitive to your feelings, and reversely, you should be that person for them too. I hope I answered your question appropriately, I understand that this might be a joke question, if it is I pity you, but if its serious then understand there is nothing wrong with asking questions like this, if you don't then you will always have something to be embarrassed about by not knowing it. I wish you all the best of luck in your sexual exploration. Good Luck!