I would usually suggest a marriage counselor, but it's a fact that if you can even get a man to a marriage counselor in his little mind he's going to please you and is in total denial. You could go for some counseling and get a fresh view on the problems in your marriage. You have to ask why you are arguing all the time. If you could post an example I could give you a little better insight as to how to handle this and hope it works. Marcy
If you wanted to make your marriage work then it is possible your husband was unhappy in the marriage (perhaps you were too) and had poor communication skills. By seeing a marriage counselor they can teach the couple the tools of communicating without arguing so that they can talk over any problems that may come up in their marriage and also to get to know each other better by expressing how they feel when they are having a problem. When a man or woman have a first time affair they do so because they may feel there is something missing that they long for such as feelings of loneliness; poor sex life; not speaking to each other; arguing too often; one or both spouses are too busy to be around the other. Cheating is wrong and not the answer to resolve problems in a marriage. Marriage is not for sissies and it takes hard work to balance life between two different personalities and make that marriage strong.
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No marriage is perfect and everyone has problems in their marriage such as job loss; financial problems; every day stress, etc., which can cause arguing between the couple and hard feelings. You may think you've made a mistake and things would be better if you had stayed married with your ex. Stop running away from reality and remember why you left your ex in the first place. Learn from those mistakes and try to communicate with your husband and work on your marriage. There is also benefits from marriage counseling.
first of all no arguing if you argue you most likely cause him/her to drink and go men/women hopping
When two people take their marriage vows it is ''til death do us part' and no one said marriage would be a bed of roses. Most couples have some bumpy roads to go down in their marriage, but it's important to have good communication skills and the maturity to discuss their problems without always arguing. If one spouse is an alcoholic; drug user; has a gambling problem and refuses to get help then no, there is not much you can do to save the marriage. If the one spouse is physically or mentally abusive and refuses to get help then this is also a reason to leave the marriage.
Communication is the key to a good marriage and it is generally the woman that has to start good communication skills so take an evening alone; shut-off the TV and start talking without yelling or arguing with each other and tell your husband that he has no right telling his mother everything that goes on in your marriage and you are not putting up with it. If he does not stop you are going to refuse to discuss anything with him for fear he will tell his mother and if it continues it will eventually ruin your marriage. Give him food for thought!
Here's a hint. It doesn't involve never arguing or disagreeing about anything. It involves arguing and disagreeing about some things, and learning to apologize and compromise and not let one fight ruin everything.
When Celie arrives, Sofia and Harpo are arguing about Harpo's attempts to control Sofia and make her submissive, as he believes this is how to maintain their marriage. Sofia, fiercely independent and strong-willed, resists Harpo's efforts, leading to a conflict between them over gender roles and expectations. This disagreement highlights the tension between traditional views of marriage and Sofia's desire for autonomy.
They are always arguing. We were arguing over where to go for dinner.
An emotional affair (no sexual contact, but just talking) is very risky and can lead to a sexual affair. Cheating is wrong and you need to sit down with your wife and discuss your marriage problems without bickering or arguing as to who is right or who is wrong and try to save the marriage. If you find this too challenging then see a marriage counselor. You took vows in your marriage and you should be able to sit down and discuss problems in your marriage with your wife and not some other woman. Be honest and face how you really feel and realize you are looking for excitement and a possible sexual relationship. You may find this entertaining now, but many couples who have had this problem end up losing everything family-wise and the love and respect of the wife they may find out they truly love and have lost her for good not to mention any children's respect for their father.
Unless he has come straight out and told you he is going to have an affair which is highly unlikely or you simply are suspecting he is going to have an affair marriage is about honesty, loyalty, trust and good communication skills. Most marriage problems are because the spouses have no communication skills and do not share their feelings with each other. Rather than say anything about a possible affair your husband may have go for a walk with him or go to a quiet restaurant and ask if he is happy in the marriage and if not what could the two of you do to fix it. Ask him to express his feelings to you and then let him know what some of his short comings are without arguing about it. There is no excuse for cheating and if one spouse or both spouses are unhappy with their marriage and want to divorce and move on they should have the fortitude to sit down and discuss it and not cheat. Cheating proves nothing and it is a selfish act. You need to start taking some control over your marriage and in a gentle way remind him that you will not tolerate cheating.
He's not worth your time, boys are argumentative, they blame it all on the girl, any boy like that is selfish and obviously's trying to make a point. Or he could be arguing to hide his insecurity's and arguing because he can't think of anything else to say.