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Is it right for a husband to have relationships with past girlfriends when marriage is in trouble?
No, it is not. work on saving the marriage or get out of it.
What does it mean when a guy says '' its nice that you are saveing yourself for marriage'' mean?
It means that he thinks your saving your virginity for marriage for your honeymoon night with your husband.
How can you deal with the painful images of your husbands affair?
When a husband has an affair on his wife it is normal to find it ugly; humiliating and that you are angry because you once trusted your husband and he broke that bond of trust. It leaves you feeling betrayed and mistrustful of him. No one forgets traumas in their life, but, in time the most painful part of the trauma does ebb. You have a right to be angry so get it out of your system, but wise people turn that anger into a productive way of either saving the marriage by seeking marriage counseling and trying to overcome this affair and again being happy together as a married couple or leaving the marriage and becoming a stronger woman for it and eventually, if the wife chooses to leave she will meet someone else in her future that will make her happy and gives her the respect she deserves. If the husband has only cheated once then 'to err is human' although it doesn't make it right and it is worth saving the marriage, but if the husband has one affair after the other it is best to move on because he has not learned his lesson or is too selfish to care whether these affairs hurt you and the rest of the family.
What do you do when you cheat on your husband after being married for 6 months?
Come clean with it. Be honest and if the marriage is worth saving then do whatever you can to make it work.
Is affair a wake up call or a death knell for a marriage?
Often it is a wake up call that something is missing your marriage either by your spouse; yourself or both of you. Marriage takes hard work and some marriages end up with one; both spouses having affairs and if they truly love each other marriage counseling does help and since both of you took your marriage vows you need to realize people are just human and if this is a first affair then the marriage is still worth saving. However, if the spouse continues to have affairs then it is the death of the marriage.
Why does the person you are having an affair with makes his presence known when you are with your spouse?
Cheating in itself is selfish; demeaning to the partner; breaking the bond of trust you once had together. Cheating is not a way to resolve marriage problems and every effort should have been made to try to save the marriage and if it couldn't be save then get a divorce so you are free to date whomever you choose. Since you chose to cheat then you take the risks of either being stalked by a lover you are having an affair with; someone that loves you enough to fight for you or, the lover walking away and possibly destroying any hopes of saving your marriage. The person who is having an affair with you has nothing to lose (you do) and may get a kick out of playing risky games and gloating a secret over your husband. Think about t this ... how would you like your husband to have a young woman on side and this was happening to you? This man you are having an affair with is either in love with you enough to try and pressure you to be with him or he's a game player and taking risks. Either way, you lose.
What are the ratings and certificates for Saving Marriage - 2006?
Saving Marriage - 2006 is rated/received certificates of: USA:PG-13
What would you do if you caught your husband with a man?
Cheating is a complicated issue, whether it involves heterosexual cheating or gay cheating. Probably, the first thing to do is see a therapist. But if you feel there is nothing to talk about and nothing in your marriage worth saving, then it's time to split up and talk to a lawyer.Now if the cheating specifically involves a gay affair, it's unlikely you're going to save the marriage. Even in this case, a therapist would prove invaluable.
How do you get your Money back was borrow before marriage in divorce this May 20?
From Princess21 l borrow money for my husband's insurance company, before we got marriage. That money was saving for my child college. We been married just 4 months. How do l explain to the judge to my still husband give me that money back? Thank you
My husband says that he is not happy anymore?
Sit down and talk with your husband calmly. Listen to him and don't get overly emotional. Right now that will not help the situation. Ask him to explain what areas of the relationship are making him unhappy and what you both can do to make things better. Discuss the possibility of seeing a marriage counselor if the marriage is something you are both willing to work towards saving.
How realistic is it to think you can save your marriage after your husband's affair?
Depending if your husband has cheated on more than one occasion and only cheated once (anyone can make a mistake, but it's important they learn from that mistake) then it is worth saving your marriage. There are many successful marriages out there where either the wife or husband had one affair and knew they made a grave mistake. Although there are men who simply like to cheat as it's an adrenalin rush and adventuresome there are men that simply find their needs not met or they are trying to recapture their young and want to know if other women still find him attractive and men do not have the tools to know how to rectify certain marriage problems, but women who are more tuned into romance and the unity of marriage and family seem too so it is up to the wife to get the good old communication skills into action. Take at least half an hour an evening to touch base with each other and listen to each others feelings without shouting or getting into an argument. Listen to each other and be supportive of each other. If there are problems in your marriage then see a marriage counselor and in some cases the couple can resolve many of their own problems.
What are the odds of saving your marriage?
If the spouse does not constantly cheat and made one mistake by having an affair then talking it out in a calm manner and facing how you both can improve upon the marriage may save the marriage or, you both could go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with every day life's stresses. If the spouse is constantly cheating; may be on drugs or abuses alcohol or is constantly verbally or physically harmful to their spouse it is best to move on. There is a good rate of successful marriages if one spouse has only had one affair if the couple decide to make it work. 'To err is human.'
