Parenting is a shared responsibility and it may also mean making up for the other's shortcomings. Becoming a house husband should not be a problem because there are ways to become productive while at home aside from taking care of the kids and taking charge of responsibilities.
If you are the mother of his children, it would be conventional to have him honor you, his mother and your mother. Not necessarily in any particular order.
the estate of the deceased pays for the funeral. what is left after expences is what is inheireted.
custody should be with both parents so there should be no problem
Your husband should be paying child support for his children unless the mother of the children has remarried and her new husband adopts the children. It would be wise that he gets each child DNA tested to even be sure they are his children. If your husband did not let you know before you married him that he had four children then it's an injustice to you, but the two of you have to learn to communicate and decide on what the right recourse is to resolve this problem.
if your husband put his family ahead of you and your children then you should divorce him because that means that he really dont care about you or your children
As an attorney, you should contact an attorney
that u will give it all to him
If your children were close with their father you should attend the funeral to be there to support your children.
no the mother should not interfere but only she must suggest the daughter to adjust with her husband and if he is wrong the wife should only deal with with the husband.
I think you should discuss how to discipline your children with your husband privately. Children will get confused if parents have different expectations.
There is nothing wrong with what she is saying because your children with your ex are her step children. It is doubtful she is saying this to be nasty to your children and you should realize that your children think of you and your ex husband as their parents and your ex husband's wife may not be well accepted by your children because children always hope their parents will get back together again.
I am a full time mother. My children are now grown ups doinf their careers. I take complete responisbity for them & my husband