Not from that information.
This is not considered an unfit mother. Where a mother lives is not anything that makes a mother fit or unfit. A mother who is a drug addict or an alcoholic that is drunk all the time is an unfit mother.
The court would have to award you custody.
If you don't have joint custody then the only thing you can do is call Child Aid (or Child Welfare) and report this giving the names of the people telling you how unfit your wife is to raise this child. EVERY report of a child that is unsafe in any situation of their environment is investigated. No names will be given to your wife (confidential.) When you phone Child Welfare please keep notes!!! This is very important. Put down dates you called them, who you talked too (get their name) and what the conversation was about. If you don't find Child Welfare is cooperating with you enough and leaving you without answers then you should go to the State your wife is in and see them face to face. I don't know who these people are giving you this information, but be careful. Your wife could be perfectly fit as a mother and others have their opinions of what an unfit mother is. Nonetheless this needs to be investigated for the child's sake.
You can prove your ex-wife an unfit mother by documenting the abuses. If she is doing drugs, make a note of the episodes and any arrests.
You will have to have proof that she is using drugs in order to use that in a court hearing to try to get custody of your child. Her living with her mother does not qualify as being an unfit parent and if the child is 23 years old then they are an adult so there should be no reason to need to prove your ex wife is an unfit mother.
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the only thing in my eyes that would make a mother unfit if she is uncapable of putting her kids before drugs .
Any mother who cannot or will not adequately provide for her child emotionally and physically. * Unfit mother (parent) is a societal term rather than legal. What some would define as unfit would not necessarily be the same as the legal definition of what constitutes neglect and/or abuse.
The cast of Travels with My Unfit Mother - 2004 includes: Anne Robinson as herself Emma Wilson as herself
It depends on how truly unfit the living situation is. If you believe the child's welfare is in danger, you should have your local department of children and families initiate an investigation. There has to be clear evidence that the child is in jeopardy for him or her to get taken out of the home.
It's not a matter of being unfit, but the best interest of the children. see link below
I would think that you would have to file a petition in the Family Court of the area that the child lives in, and then you would have to prove her to be an "unfit" parent.