If he has obviously moved on and you are trying to move on as well it is best to cut ties with him. He cannot be in a new relationship and expect his new girlfriend to be okay with this - its is best for everyone if you do not accept any of his contacting and do not contact him - its time for both of you to let go and move on. That is very cruel and my opinion is that he only wants to use you. If you were so important to him why did you break up? Shouldn't he have tried to fix what was wrong? A breakup is hard enought, does his current girlfriend know he wants to keep in contact with you? You should move on with a clean slate - not saying that if you see him you should not say hi or be polite, but don't allow him to use some emotional mind trick on you. Good luck! Take note of his actions, not his words. If he didn't want to lose you and feels you are a priority in his life, why is he in a new relationship? By breaking up with you, he CHOSE to lose you. People don't break up because they're scared of their feelings; they break up when they know they don't have the feelings for the other person that they need to stay in a relationship with them.
My hunch is that he wants to enjoy the attention and benefits (possibly sexual) of your company without having to commit to a relationship with you. It's not what you're hoping to hear, but he's putting you on the back burner, and hoping to string you along emotionally, just in case his new relationship doesn't work out. He's being distrustful to both you and his new girlfriend Do you think his new girlfriend is aware of his contacts with you?
As long as you still have feelings for him as a boyfriend and want to be back in a relationship with him you can't be just friends. If you want to see how he truly feels about you, tell him only to contact you again when he is free and willing to be with you (which is not the case now). Until then, he needs to stop contacting you so that you can move on. Let him know that if he wanted to be a true friend to you, he will stop confusing you by imposing himself on you; perhaps one day you can be friends when you have moved on from your feelings for him. If he lets you go he has your best interests in mind; if he continues to contact you, knowing it confuses you he is nowhere near to being a good friend.
Normally you should not be worried if your boyfriend isn't that into sex or doesn't think it is important to a relationship... May be he is a person with sincere personality & feels free with feelings for romance!!! Or may be he doesn't find you that attractive to get seduced from you....
if your boyfriend doesnt know what to say to you you need to ask him his perspective on thngs what he think about your relationship and it an go from there
Calm. There is no need to act while you have a boyfriend. You can always experiment with this new developement later if your relationship doesnt work out. If it becomes a problem you need to talk to your boyfriend about it. It is very important that you tell him or else he would get very upset if you dumped him for a girl.
he probably doesnt have the money to do it person, but if he was serious he loves you
You should let him make the 1st move.But if he doesnt then you should talk to him about it. Talking helps your relationship. But if that doesnt work you make the first move .
It could mean he is distracted, upset, or not interested in engaging in the moment. It's important to communicate with him to understand why he is not making eye contact.
It can be challenging, but open communication with your boyfriend about how you both feel and setting boundaries with his mother can help. Building a positive relationship with her by showing respect and understanding her perspective can also help improve the situation. It's important to remember that ultimately, your boyfriend's loyalty and support should be with you.
she doesnt have a boyfriend
Ignore him. Don't contact him.
If a girl says she can't answer your question because she has a boyfriend, it means that she is currently in a committed relationship and is not available to pursue dating or a romantic relationship with you at this time.
i have the same issue with my boyfriend. if i was you, i would talk to him what is his problem and how you could fix it. i did that.
It depends on what kind of relationship you had and how he would react and if you and him will ever talk again.