Then said person is really not your friend. They are using you to become closer with your husband. They have already or is trying to manipulate you in such a way that they've gained your trust to be around your husband without you. I would either stop it right away or take your situation as an opportunity to set your "supposed" friend and even your husband both up to see where their loyalty lies with you.
This man was your husband's friend and of course I assume liked you as a person and not as a lover. It is very common when a husband passes away that his male friends will feel uncomfortable around the widow, not to mention that your husband's friend is grieving in his own right and feels odd being around your home and has the integrity not to come around you since his friend has passed away.
He comes home.
A woman that comes home to find her husband cheating and joins.
bang him
Simply talk to your husband about it. If he doesn't agree with you I would talk to your husbands friend. And don't kick him out if you know he has no where to go. We don't need another home less guy! And if they agree with you try to help your husbands friend find a house.
It was most likely pre-arranged that she called while you were out so your husband and her could have sex.
Yes she can.
it means you need a new husband He finds life at home boring and too routine and is too selfish to give of himself. He treats ''home'' as a hotel. Drop his suitecase off at the pub or the friend's house where he's usually at!
when he goes off with another woman. or when he never comes home 'cause he'll be working "overtime".
Gosh I do am sorry, not sorry that you husband is going to leave you but sorry that he hurt you. Now if he comes home to get his things, make sure that he only take his clothes period. Sweetie I'm not sure if you still love your husband, but what he is doing to you is not good for you, and your health. Let him go because one day he will receive what's coming to him. " what comes around, goes around." Be proud and don't help him pack his clothes. His the one who's leaving so its him that need to pack his clothes. Just hang on and you'll see that you are better off without him betraying you. Make sure that you make yourself busy with friends who will understand. And before you know it, your life will be much better. I'll pray for you.......
The rebound, i suppose
removing husband from home when name is not on the deed?