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i have recently have been getting extreemly jelous becasue she talks to guys more than me and the guys take lots of intrest with in her hit on her flirt with her, and she caught me looking at her messages and got angry but she is really proective of her phone like she is hiding something that's what made me curious iv tried no to get jelous but it comsumes me and i cant help it.

SuggestionYour jealousy is natural, but its source is your own insecurity. You are only jealous because you are afraid that you are not as good as these guys who flirt with her. The most likely reason why she is protective of her phone is that she can feel that you only want to read it out of overprotectiveness/jealousy, and of course she wouldn't like that. It's not alright for you to spy into her privacy if she doesn't let you (as in, you asked her and she said ok). But at the same time it's not ok of her to flirt with other guys, but you don't clearly say whether she does or whether it's only them. The question is, has she actually done anything bad that would justify being upset with her? She can't help if a guy flirts with her, but if she respected her boyfriend, it would be appropriate to discourage them flirting with her. What you need to do is, first make sure it's not just your own jealousy. If it turns out she's really not behaving very respectfully, tell her that you do not like that behaviour. If she cannot see her own mistake and refuses to change her behaviour, you need to break up with her.

In any of the cases, it's important that you realise that jealousy is completely due to insecurity. Imagine if you were completely sure that there's no reason for her to ever want another guy more than you - you would never be jealous of anyone would you? But... who says you can't be that sure? There's nothing keeping you from it except yourself. Because if you don't want to be secure and work for it, you can't.

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