I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother, it's always sad to see someone who we love so much suffer as their health starts to go downhill. Two years ago we watched my grandmother as her health declined until she passed, it was definitely a hard thing to experience. But what helped my family get through the grieving process was meditating on the hope we have in The Bible. On scripture I find comforting is found at Job 14:14,15 where it says, "If a man dies, can he live again? I will wait all the days of my compulsory service until my relief comes. You will call, and I will answer you. You will long for the work of your hands." This scripture is saying that when our loved ones pass away, not only do we feel the loss, but God feels the pain we feel as well. This scripture in fact says that he longs of the works of his hands, so he misses his creation and can't wait for the day where he can bring them back to life. There are more scriptures like this found in the Bible, that can bring us comfort like that.
Do you attend church and can you ask the clergy there for ideas. They often have people who help form prayer circles. What about a psychologist. They are not just there for mental health issues but for people who need coping skills. Does your grandmother have friends, they may be a big help. What about your own friends. You must talk to someone and a soon as possible. The people involved in the setup of hospice must have ideas, so ask them. They have gone through this with many people before. This may be the best place to look for help first.
The Grieving Process - 2014 was released on: USA: 7 September 2014
There is nothing unusual about this. A normal grieving process continues for several months, and is seldom completely over for a couple of years. Don't worry about it. You are processing the whole thing, and it takes time. If you find that it is affecting your life adversely, check with your local hospice center to find some free grief counseling sessions.
First of all, allow it to run its course. Don't stifle it, and don't tell yourself to "get over it." It will be over when it is over. (Don't let other people tell you that, either.) A full grieving process takes about two years...IF it is allowed to continue normally. You will almost certainly be able to find grief support groups in your area, run by professionals who understand how to deal with these issues in a healthy way. Check with your local hospice center. They will have some resources. Otherwise, go to the local Mental Health Association for references. Avoid religion-based programs. This is not an indictment of religion, but merely a reflection of the fact that the people who run them are not necessarily trained in the most effective methods of grief therapy. This writer's spouse is a grief counselor.
I am sorry about the loss of your grandma. They are special people. If you are a Christian, the Bible says there is a time for grieve. In other words...it won't last forever. I can suggest keeping busy but to also take time to treasure the strong memories of her. Certainly she would be most pleased with you if you lived your life based on what she meant to you and what she taught you. Her spirit will always be with you and you will move on. I promise
Analyze That
Yes, because it helps you accept it.
No two people grieve exactly the same way, and cultural differences play a significant part in the grieving process. For many.the most immediate response is shock, numbness, and disbelief.Emotional reactions are as individual as physical reactions
If you get a little bit of help with the grieving process (group therapy is best) it will fade to the point that you will be able to function and be happy again. It takes from one to two years, if the process is not blocked by "stuffing" your emotions and being "brave." Your local hospice center can direct you to support groups. Most are free. It never stops hurting, but it will stop hurting as often.
Your grandma
Higher animals have been grieving for millions of years. No one has any idea when, where or with whom the process began.One of the major figures in the early scientific study of grief was Dr. Elizabeth Kübler-Ross.
You need to have empathy for what people are going through. Grieving is a process that is different for everyone.
The process of fermentation releases carbon dioxide, so we can not stay in fermentation forever.