the best thing to do is get to know her as a friend, then when you "understand" her ask her out.
No you should get to know her first! She might get scared away because you barely know her and she barely knows you..
it because she is shy when she talks to you in person.
Be honest with her. If she cares for you the way she should then she'll understand. If you know she doesn't then she's not even worth the trouble.
pretend to understand her
No she doesn't love you and might not even like you. Sorry:(
Make a point to her why you are affraid of that; try to explain what and why you feel that way. She will understand eventually, and if not than she is probably just insecure herself, but even so she will think about it and even if she doesnt say or act as if, she will try to understand.
ask her why, be there for her and try to understand
I dont understand.............
You have to tell her! Even if it makes you feel stupid
if they are your best friend they should understand
Nothing you can do, but understand that you can't be everyones type.
Sorry, not possible. There isn't even a hard way to do this.