Should you date your friend's ex-boyfriend?

Answer 1

It will be a strain on the friendship if you do. Recognize that the friend "broke up" with her former boyfriend for what she perceived to be a valid reason. If you date him you're effectively saying that not only was she wrong, but you don't really care about her feelings. It gets real complicated, real fast. You'll likely loose the friend if you date him. You need to decide what's most important to you.

Answer 2

It would be better that they hear it from you then from someone else so you probably should your friend should understand. Yes because if you don't he or she'll get curious and get mad at you and you will have a problem and when you tell him or her then your trust will grow and be better of and if they get mad at you they are not your true friend. You may have wanted to asked her how she felt about it before you did it, but if you are concerned for her feelings still, then yes. If she is your friend, she will find out sooner or later. There is a better chance of damage control by finding out directly from you and not someone else.

Answer 3

That's between you and your friend. If this is a really good friend and you value that friendship, I would tread lightly. Good friends are hard to find. Still, things I would consider are: * The end result of the relationship your friend had with her ex-husband. In other words, are there existing hard feelings your friend has towards her ex-husband. If so, those feelings may transfer to you. * How do you think your friend would feel about you dating him? * Why the divorce took place? For example, if by chance he was cheating on her, then what he did to her, he may do to you. * Do you really have that strong of a feeling toward him? * Is it worth the risk of losing a good friend? As such, friendships are based on trust, with open, honest, and direct communication. I would think, it would not be a bad idea to discuss this with your friend in a sincere, gentle and caring way. I'm sure she would appreciate it, and hopefully all will be well.

Answer 4

if they say it is okay than yes but deep down they might have feelings for him so be careful because you could ruin a great friendship. try inviting her over when he is over and see how she reacts. if she doesn't act weird its fine but if she acts weird dump him for your friendships sake

Answer 5

You can but it is usually not suggested or encouraged. If you like this person, you should talk about it with your friend to see if they are fine with you dating their ex.

Answer 6

If you really want to you can,but if your feelings are still hurt it is a bad idea.