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Alcohol and drug abuse are both serious reasons for terminating a relationship. If you care about him, you need to let him know that his behavior is destructive. You can't force him to clean up, but you can stop being the enabler. Don't let him drag YOU AND YOUR KIDS down. Get out of there.

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Q: Should you leave your husband if he is an abusive alcoholic pot-head by night but a caring husband and father by day?
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