When is the right time to let your boyfriend touch your breast?

Answer 1

Touching your breast is not really a big deal. If you have a breast to touch, then its available to be touched. The breast will not be harmed by being touched, but your heart can easily be harmed by allowing too much, too soon.

The real issue is the relationship you have with the boyfriend. To move to a level of intimacy where you let him inside your clothes is dangerous and possibly hurtful to you. He may be, as is often the case, much more interested in touching your breast then he is interested in you as a person. Boys are really very driven by sexual desire and often they can ignore the person they are with to be able to get the sexual excitement that they crave. And you will get all attached to him, fall in love, but devastated when he just dumps you for another girl as soon as one offers herself to him. You will be very seriously hurt.

And of course, girls want sexual excitement too, and they want to have their breasts touched. And sometime girls hurt boys by using them to get sex. It can work both ways.

SO ... the real issue is separate out the sexual desire, the desire to impress your friends and the strength of relationship that you have with this boy.

If you feel he is honest, he likes you, there is something real and long term going on, then you can make a sensible decision and not get hurt. Be wise. Don't allow unsuitable boys inside your heart. Or inside your shirt.

Answer 2

You have to have an idea of what you intend to do with any given relationship. If you are in love with a boy and intend to marry him, then at some point, sexual touching will become part of this process. But bear in mind that lots of boys will want to have sex with you, and if you let them touch your breasts, they will not want to stop there, and if you become pregnant as a result, that will be your problem, not theirs. So in general, it is good to be cautious about such things.

Answer 3

no it improves your relation ship

It doesn't matter whether you feel it's right or wrong. The fact is that it will eventually lead to the next step which could have a negative effect on both of you in the long run. However, no one is listening today and history just repeats itself.

Answer 4

Yes! Your bf would absolutely love this! Your relationship never going to go anywhere without a boob touch