You should definitely go. An abusive relationship is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. If you continue to stay with that abusive person, you will more than likely end up being attracted to more abusive people in the future. In fact some abusive relationships can lead to suicide and/or being murdered.
Why would you even think about going back to an abusive relationship? Unless you want to get beat on for the rest of your life.
No!
It's not a good idea to even entertain the thought of staying with an abusive man. Why are you bothering with all of the books and other efforts? RUN!
Bad idea all the way around.
There is no one correct answer. So long as a person remembers anything of the abusive relationship, it will always have some effect on them simply by remembering it. In a similar fashion to some believing virginity can never be regained once lost, someone who is abused can never be "never abused" unless they incur a complete amnesia over their memory of the entire abusive relationship. The more serious consequences to the victim of a relationship, such as depression (suicidal thoughts or feelings of worthlessness, etc.), nightmares, "battered wife syndrome" (in which one thinks the abusive relationship is their fault and the relationship can be good again if they are a better lover) may not pass at all if the victim has chronic depression (chronic depression doesn't mean feeling depressed after an emotionally traumatic event, such as an abusive relationship, but is a neurochemical imbalance that can make it impossible for a person to stop feeling depressed even long after the event, whereas a normal person will feel depressed but the feeling of depression fades after not too long of a period). Several months to a year or more may be required for the worst symptoms to pass. Certainly, if bad symptoms persist for longer than a year, professional help may be required (but it is a good idea for the victim of an abusive relationship to get professional help early anyway, as some of the side effects of an abusive relationship can be deadly).
It is not illegal for them to be in a relationship. But in the opinion of most people it would not be a good idea.
that is such a bad idea. don't end the relationship if he is the perfect guy!!!!!
I hope so. Here is a good idea, you should think of their relationship yourself. It could be fun coming up with your own idea of their relationship.
That is NOT a good idea. Trapping her means you are CONTROLLING her. That is not a good basis for a healthy relationship.
Sounds like a dumb idea. Why antagonize someone who is not capable of controlling their anger to the point of physical violence? You simply need to leave.
I think its a great idea to be friends with your colleagues, but always remember that the person in the higher position must always be given the proper respect, regardless of what happens in the personal relationship.
Depending on the situation, time, and people, of course. If it's the beginning of a new relationship, I'd say it was a bad idea and may scare the other person off. I would suggest that it was a good idea on an anniversary date.
You were obviously fond of each other at some point. As long as you weren't in an abusive or harmful relationship and there aren't a lot of mixed signals, there shouldn't be anything wrong with staying friends. I think that as long as you were not mistreated in the relationship, it is a good idea to be friendly towards an ex. It's usually a lot easier than the alternative, i.e. not being friendly and polite. Please make sure, however, that you are not leaving yourself open to be hurt by this person by carrying on a friendship with them. This is especially important if the break-up was recent. no its not wrong you should still be friends
Elizabeth