I think you should discuss how to discipline your children with your husband privately. Children will get confused if parents have different expectations.
No, married daughters should not be spanked by their fathers. If someone is old enough to be married, then their parents should no longer be disciplining them.
You should suggest to the husband that you go to a swingers party.
if u still love her you should defend for her
Generally, yes, the child is still his child. The support payments would likely stop if the new husband adopts the child, but he can't do that unless you agree to it.
yes because there his kids
Bigamy is a criminal offence.
Time, only.
No they are not still husband and wife once the divorce is finalized.No they are not still husband and wife but they are still brother and sister.
No, you are still the husband and should act like one. Be yourself and act like a man. If you have children they will still need a father.
he can proceed but without your consent, he would have to schedule a hearing and notify you of that hearing so the judge could hear your side.
You should expect to move on. Even if her relationship with her husband does not last, she likely still will not want to marry you or continue to be with you because she still wants to be with him and/or she feels you betrayed her, as ironic as that may sound.
As bad as that is you might still have feelings for your ex. The right thing to do is to go things over with yourself and see if you love your husband or if you still have feelings for the ex. If you really believe you still have feelings for your ex you should confront your husband about it, its only fair to him.