What a Sikh woman wants?

Answer 1

A Spiritual Partner

· Pray with me, be my spiritual partner and fulfill the spiritual void.

· Build a relationship based on trust and honesty.

· Plan life with me so that we may be successful in the life here after. I have much more in mind than just clothes, jewelry, car, house...

· Let us try to be better than we are.

· Let us be brave together and embark on a life-long journey towards eternal peace.

· Respect the hair on my body as I respect yours.

A Communicating Partner

· If I make a suggestion out of love on something I would like you to improve on, don't take it as an attack, don't simply reply I'm doing the best I can, and don't say I'm nagging. This indicates denial that you are human and could improve in some areas. It also shuts out the woman in your life by creating a fear of ever expressing a need or concern.

· I am just as receptive to any ideas you may have.

· Resolve conflicts quickly. When conflicts last long, it just escalates the problem.

A Thoughtful Partner

· Tell me 'I love you' everyday.

· I want to be your best friend and for you to be mine.

· I want our marriage to be all that it can be, BUT not out of some misplaced idea that it is a chore or duty - it should be with Joy in your heart.

· Take the time and effort to find out what the woman in your life likes and dislikes.

· Make a simple phone call in the middle of the day. After all, I am understanding when you think about work at home, so why not show you think about me at work?

· Be romantic, leave a love note or do something unexpected.

· Be spontaneous.

· Please don't show your amorousness in front of others.

An Equal Partner

· We both live in the house, we both contribute to the mess, and we both work outside the home. So why is it considered solely my responsibility to clean it?

· Treat my parents and family as you wish for me to treat yours. While you are planning retirement for your parents ...remember to include mine.

· Cleaning the house and doing the dishes are just as much your responsibility as it is mine. Don't treat it like you're doing me a favor. Besides, if you can do Langar Sewa at the Gurudwara, surely the same principle applies to your own kitchen at home.

· I too have a full time job, and when I come home, I too wish to relax and unwind. So it'll be nice if you could share the cooking and cleaning responsibility.

· As a homemaker, my job is never over. I wish you would do your share around the house so we can have quality time to spend with each other.

· Give our home life 100% like you do your job or your favorite hobby.

· Pick up your shoes at home as you do at the Gurudwara.

· Treat my job as if it were just as important as your job...especially if I'm a stay-at-home mom. It would cost a lot of money, to hire somebody to do what we do all day, 18-20 hours a day ...for free.

· Please do not compare us with other females in your past/present, we're not them, we're unique unto ourselves, and we're not replacements for Mom, Ex, or Deceased.

A Responsible Partner

· Know that you are a major influence on your children. Your actions in your life are teaching the children. Yes, even the girls will take after you.

· A husband is very attractive when he is tender, playful, and reads to his children. A father who is actively demonstrating his love for his children is very sexy to the mother who bore them.

· The children need you just as much as they need me.

· Nothing can beat a bedtime story that is read by Daddy!.