Some people call this the tween years when kids are not really kids but are not really teenagers.
Yes, there are numerous websites that are somewhat similar to Second Life but are good for Kids and Preteens. Check out the related links below for some examples.
Here are some. I listed them in age groups. Small Kids Tootsville Webkinz Totstown Pauly's playhouse Older Kids/ preteens Fantage VirtualFamilyKingdom Fashion Fantasy Game ToonTown Barbie girls Xivio Panfu Marapets Teens Onverse! Vizwoz IMVU (also can be for preteens) Gaia kings of chaous And more!
there are definitely some for teenagers, perhaps if you wait a little while mate.
redtube.com
girlsgogames.com
A few alternatives to Wii are the Sony Playstation and the XBox from Microsoft. Also, try calling a local department store or electronics store. There are also older versions of game consoles that might help.
relation ships and popularity
google or www.fashion.com
Wells and cisterns are alternatives to aqueducts.
solar
There are some other alternatives to rubbish removal than relying on city trash workers. Some of these alternatives are composting, recycling, and donating.