Well, I have 11-14 year olds website which is called
secretbuilders.com
moviestarplanet.com
gaiaonline.com
These are all apropriate and you don't have to use drop down chat unless that is what is chosen.
Mini games site would include
gamesfreak.net
It has a bunch of games that younger ages would enjoy but maybe not 14- 15 year olds. Hope it helped :)
cause boys don,t go to girls websites
stardoll
See the related links for all of the websites.
A good website for girls (kids) is gamesforgirls.com
Dressupjounir.com
There are many websites that have information and videos of hot anime girls. Websites such as, anime cubed, dailymotion, animeftw, and xhamster have information and videos of hot anime girls.
www.rnr-advice.weebly.com
Playpink.
Maybe Virtual Famillys ? :)
club penguin i think
www.piczo.com!!!! luv it there!!!!!!
For 9 year old girls some good websites are webkinz, neopets, stardoll, and girlsense. Another goood website is Groovy Girls.