OK the fact that a married man has a mistress at all is a sign he has feelings for her.
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I guess married men will be different to what they feel towards their mistress. But I will use my experience and what I had notice from the man that I married. First of all he told me that he can't never have sex with a woman without feelings, so it means that I will not worry that he can get every woman that he meet. What I had noticed from him was he have this look, a happy look that I never seen from him even when we just met before we got married. How do I know that he loves this other woman, the most outrageous behavior he had was for 2 months he called her 24/7 and never concerned about getting some sleep. He will call her first thing in the morning before he can start his day. At night he will be in his office talking to her till morning hours. And if this is not love, I don't know what is. I did compared the time that we had together while dating, after we got married, and the answer he told me was there's no cell phone then and when he called his always worried about bills.
Our daughter mentioned that her dad is making himself look good for me, to impress me but he wasn't. This man that I married knows how to be affectionate to this married woman, (was married but now divorce) but I never seen it from him when we were newly wed. I could tell you what I saw from the man that I married but I think this will cover what you need to know.
Although I'm sure there are plenty signs of an sexual affair, here are mine from personal experience of being the other woman. The husband: starts to work late frequently, perfume scent on chothing, unexplained phone calls, less interested in sex with wife, takes more outings alone, physical evidence (hair strands, condoms, semen stain in boxers)
There are many signs a married man is having problems in his marriage. The man may be unhappy all the time, he may stay gone longer from home, or the man may even stray.
If you think its right do it!
honey its over
tell him you should adopt a child in need like an orphan
When a married woman tells a man she is getting closer to him (if it is not her husband she is speaking too) means she is falling in love with him or wants to have an affair. If the male was smart he would hit the ground running and not get into an affair with her.
you have a affair with a married man
You don't!
He will take you seriously as long as you want the same thing he does for himself -- an affair that lasts as long as he wants it to last, not for him to get a divorce.
If a woman is having an affair with a married man, and by doing so is endangering the stability of that man's family, she can be described as a home wrecker.
yes a man can have an affair but one can not be married.he can marrie after divorce of present wife.
Well , he's MARRIED ! And he is a liar and a cheat. What's to brag about ? And if you admire this guy, where the heck are YOUR values ?
No man of any age should ever physically touch (or spank) a younger non married woman. However, it appears that you are having an affair with the married man and if you both get excitement out of him spanking you then it is up to you to communicate this fact to him one way or the other.
Its called adultery it's in the ten commandments it says you should not have an affair with a married person even if your married or not