You can't. Just be yourself and if "he" is going to "fall" in love with you, he will and you back. I think love is a choice at some level but that's another thread!
In Things Fall Apart the "man's crop" is the yams.
The word used in "Things Fall Apart" for a man or woman without titles is "umunna."
The white man's name in Things Fall Apart is Reverend James Smith.
man without title
They were to enable the white man to see and talk to spirits.
Okagbue Uyanwa was a famous medicine man in the book; "Things Fall Apart"
Things Fall Apart
It is Okonkwo who says that it is not bravery when a man fights with a woman in "Things Fall Apart." He believes that combat between a man and a woman is unequal and dishonorable, not displaying true courage.
Well the white people aren't really cool in the things fall apart as they were in the white man's burden. One man's trash is another man's treasure. In that case, fortune telling cookies are not a really a reliable source for wisdom.
Reality?
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In "Things Fall Apart," masculinity in Igbo culture is often associated with physical strength, wealth, and one's ability to provide for their family. A man's reputation in the community, his success in farming or hunting, and his participation in tribal rituals and ceremonies are also important aspects of defining masculinity in Igbo society.