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What did my narcissist ex-boyfriend mean by you're stirring my pot again when I asked if it was over between us he then ignored all my text again?
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∙ 13y ago
One interpretation may be that you're making him angry. But, if you read your question, you will notice that you called him your ex-boyfriend. If he really is your ex, then there should be no question about whether it is over between the two of you. What may be happening is that you may not be ready to accept the fact that the relationship has ended and are trying to rekindle it back into life.
This is my opinion, from a guy's perspective: Breaking up can be a very confusing time for both members of the relationship. Most guys like things to be simple and clear cut. So, to a guy, you're either together or you're not. The uncertainty that you are verbalizing to him is causing him to feel uncomfortable. That is why he is avoiding you. The uncertainty is bringing up a lot of issues that he thought he didn't need to deal with anymore. So, when you ask him if it's over, then to him, you are "stirring the pot."
Please realize that most girls are a bit more complicated and have a broader scope on relationship issues. This makes for a very trying time for both partners when a relationship ends. The guy usually wants a clear clean end so they can move on, but most times, the girl may be more willing to work things out. And so, the eternal struggle continues. Such is life between men and women. Welcome to the confusion, and best of luck. When you find the right guy, it should be less confusing, but still confusing, none the less.
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Is it more painful for a narcissist to be ignored or ridiculed?
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It is best to ignored a narcissist?
Yes it is......... I know from experience
How do you get to a narcissist?
The one one thing that makes them go crazy is to be ignored.
What causes a narcissist personality?
being ignored growing up, riddicule,,manipulation,not being pick up as a child
How should i act if approached by ex narcissist and you dont want anything to do with him?
Blank him (or her). They can't stand being ignored.
Why might someone be ostracized shunned ignored in Ancient Athens?
Ostracism meant banishment for ten years, not shunned/ignored. It was used to get rid of political opponents by stirring up enough people to vote for it.
Why is it painful for the narcissist to be ignored with indifference?
Narcissistic people are arrogant and the only right way is their way. To be ignored is painful for them because they need that constance debate with others to make themselves feel superior to others (everyone else in the world is stupid) to get through the day. Marcy
How would a narcissist feel at being discarded with no explanation and then ignored from a person he did this to repeatedly?
My narcissist or rather ex-narcissist could not stand it. He called repeatedly. I ignored his calls. He finally showed up at my office and said he felt "teary-eyed." Only a narcissist would SAY he felt teary-eyed wherein most men try to hide their tears. I finally agreed to listen to more lies of how he missed me and needed me (even though he has since moved in with another woman). I actually started to believe in him again. For about a day. Then I heard he'd told people he wanted to be advised if my co-worker ever got divorced because he is interested in her. The lies never stop! And they get worse as they get older. Now I'm back to not answering his calls again.
How do you dominate and punish a narcissist?
If you want to punish one, just ignore him. They hate to be ignored!!Answeryou be nice to them and praise them then get them to do what you want. Bust them in every lie, which basically means every thing they say to you, not being brash, but I have been with a narcissist for 10 years. There is no dominating a narcissist. You will have sex with one of their friends, to get back at them. They will have sex with your brother, or sister. There is no feelings of remorse, from them. If you are not doing exactly what they need, then they don't need you, or will make you feel like crap.
Is it possible to have a friendship with a narcissist?
It can be possible to be friends with a narcissist but do not expect much from this person. Also expect the friendship not to be very fufilling and mostly one sided (on your part) The one thing that does help is that you already know that he/she is a narcissist so you will understand why they do or say most things. I say give it a shot but do not expect too much like a friendship where that person will always be there for you no matter what because that just will not happen. I know this from experience. GOODLUCK!
What is the relationship between pharaohs and peasants?
he was very cruel to them sometimes. Mostly he ignored them except when he kidnapped the and raped them.
What was a major similarity between the genocides in Rwanda and Cambodia?
Both were largely ignored by the international community when they occurred.
