Oars if you are rowing, paddles if you are...well...paddling...
An "oar."
no it has to be a mutual thing. He has to want to hold your hand. You cannot force someone to do something that they do not want to do or something that they do not feel comfortable doing.
The hold.
The answer is simple, the amount of weight a boat can hold depends on how big your boat is the bigger the boat the more water it displaces the more weight it can hold.
A hold is a large vacant space below decks where the cargo is put in a boat.
circle boat
That would be the steering wheel.
it is call a old school cave man
it can hold as much as your mom
Depends on the boat it is designed to hold.
That would be a cargo rack.
A "Hold" on a boat is the part of the boat that carries cargo. A Freezer Hold would be a compartment that is refrigerated so as to haul fresh fish or other items that would spoil during transit.