See him in person, meet up, write to each other, get myspace or facebook to keep in touch., etc ...
It doesn't matter about age but you really CANT call ANY crush your boyfriend unless he is your boyfriend. TRUST ME THE WRONG WAY TO GO IS TO CALL HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND COZ THEN HE WILL NEVER I REPEAT NEVER TALK TO YOU AGAIN
call the police have her call an abuse hotline in the area
random person
Your Baby Boy!
call him toodle-muffin-love-sauce or the equivalent
send him a letter, give him an email, text him, call him and maybe when you do that try to convince him to come back.
You cant tell who your boyfriend is because it just happens.
you cant
eat him
you cant love is love
You cant.
Then you need to find a new boyfriend.