What would you do if your uncle was cheating on his wife and she's your best friend?

Answer 1

A similar story happened like this to me. Tell him that you know and that he should tell her. Then comfort her, buy ice-cream, see a movie, and be there for her. don't mention it to anyone else. She might be regretful.

Answer 2

This is a tough situation to be in I will start off with that first.

Yes you can go tell the fiance' but will she believe you that is the problem.

And yes then she goes and asks her husband to be and of course he denies it and then that puts you in a bind as well.

Because you have no proof.

So what proof would you need to get?

Pictures say a thousand words.

I am assuming you have seen the relative with another person and doing things that look like cheating whether it be a kiss or more.

Well if there is any chance you can capture them on film and develop it with a good zoom lens so you get the faces and the full close up capture of them, then you have it made.

You can then have someone make sure that his fiance' gets these pictures, not through you, but someone they don't know but you do and they just deliver it for you.. then you are kept completely out of the loop, unless you want to be in the loop that is fine too, but I would not want to be in the middle of it and let them two hash it out, as once sees the pictures there will be words and problems and the best that you are out of the scene completely.

Just in case the relative decides to take repercussions on you.. for breaking them up over their cheating although you did not do anything wrong you just wanted to do the right thing.

So borrow, buy or get a good zoom lens camera, take pictures, develop and deliver to the fiance' either yourself and/or someone you can trust will get the pictures to the fiance' even just taking them there, and then having that person drop them off and then you have them come back where you are parked, away from the house or business or wherever you drop them off at.. to the fiance' and the person comes back to the car, you will know she safely got them.. oh and don't put them in the mailbox! That is illegal and don't put them in the door they could fly away and that is not good either or the relative gets them and the fiance' never sees them anyways!

Hand them to the fiance only, whoever you get to do this, or yourself.. not the relative at all.. I don't think when all is done and said that there will be a wedding anytime soon with these two.

Answer 3

Get him to stop. If he doesn't do that then set up a place for all four girl friends to meet. Then your uncle will be known for the cheating fraud that he is.