What do you do when a boy you like talks bad about you?

Answer 1

Huh. Either one: review your thoughts. Maybe he isn't such a great guy after all. Consider: would you really want a boyfriend who disses you? Or, maybe your just for his looks not his persona (I don't know!). If you're still absoultely, 110% certain that you like him after all, well, try and change his mind. Remember: did he diss you in a joking way or in a straightforward 'I hate this person' way or of course in a sort of 'I am only making fun of this person because my friends say I should'. If he is doing this under the influence of others, you may have a chance. If he is doing it independently, will change it! Now, this is sadly a hypothetical case, seeing as of course I don't know this boy, nor do I know you. Hm. Alright, try and play hard to get. That person who is so tantalizing and tempting but just out of his grasp. So close, yet ever so far. That kind of effect. Talk to him (refrain from talking to him every nanosecond). Talk to him about noncommital stuff; school work, jobs, sports, blah di blah di blah. If he is actually talking to you, take it a step further. Somethign in common with him? Well, join his club/group or talk about going to the topic you like together. If not, and he's still dissing you or doesn't seem interested, either back off (no use having a guy who despises you) or try harder. Remember: So close yet ever so far. don,t play cheap, cause he'll think he can use you then dump you. But don't I repeat, DON'T play to hard to get. He'll just give up. Oh, a little bit of fancy-pansy stuff doesn,t hurt either. Touch of a better style. touché. Where are your feature points; academically, physically, facially, emotionally? take all those good points, mix it with some sugar and spice and make those goodp oints ten times stronger. Let him see that angel in you. If you want to talk more, write to me. This is of course, only one hypothetical case. Duh. Hope it works! This is my guide to how to get with a boy remember it wont always work, It can take a couple of weeks to months, it all kind of depends on your compatibility and how confident the guy is! But that doesn't matter how long as long as you do have a good strong relationship and if they aren't interested at all then you will have to accept that, but at the same time afterwards just be nice to him, say hi, smile but don't go over the top. Well, first what you do is you start talking to them allot, but not over the top, don't go out of your way to talk to them yet! See if they have enthusiasm to see you/talk to you, [2 weeks maybe] then you see if there is any physical signs he likes you [1 week, it will be obvious and if you can see it get a friend who id boy experienced to help J] then you see if his friends start talking to you [1/2/3/4/5 weeks depends on how shy the boy is you wait for this signal because it mean he has been talking to you and maybe confided in them that he likes you] then you kind of back off now you have him hooked [1/2 weeks give him time to realise and react!] then you see if they either don't care, or if they make effort to see you/talk to you [this means they enjoy spending time with you/talking to you] then you just let them start asking you questions, and ask them back become. Become knowledgeable in his life, help him with problems anything like that. Have good chats [remember if you can't have a good long un'awkward chat after all this time about allsorts then he wont last long as you will become bored and not have a strong relationship!] Then finally if he starts dropping hints you drop them back then he asks you out. Good luck!