What do you do when a guy tells you that he is dominant?

Answer 1

Say that you want to be dominant sometimes. turn him over in the middle of a thrust so you will be on top and show him that you are a little dominant.

A guy telling you that he is dominant just means that he likes to take charge in relation to sex. How to reply to that is a very personal issue. If you like that he wants to take charge then tell him that, if you don't like that idea then tell him so. Don't walk into something unprepared.

Another view:

Keep in mind he may also be referring to his personality in general. He may be telling you that he is the type to dominate over women, and expect them to do as he says, and not just in the bedroom.

If you are involved in a relationship with a guy like this, you need to be very careful. Men who are dominant can also get violent if the woman doesn't "obey" him. So unless you want to spend your life being dominated, and possibly abused, you need to stop seeing him if he does become violent.

Another view:

Make sure to just talk about what you want in a sexual way as well. If it is something that interests you go for it, if not do not let him push you into it.

Also just because he likes this in the bed room doesn't mean that he's a bad guy. Just remember that this is just play. If he does try to pull this else where you need to stop him in his tracks.

ANOTHER VIEW:

It means he's controlling. It means he values his opinions more than yours. It means he will always be right. It might even mean that he will control your money and activities, even friendships. Talk to him about it, but more importantly, think about it yourself. Watch out for the red flags: your family and friends not accepting him (of course just wanting the best for you), feeling that you're never good enough, having to tell him your whereabouts at all times, etc.

Controlling relationships often turn abusive. Unfortunately, by the time it gets to this point, he will have manipulated you so much that it will be devastating to leave. And, things might appear to get better from time to time, but they will never be as good as a healthy relationship.

Advice: find a better man. One that has respect for women.

No it does not mean he doesn't respect you or your wishes, being in the category of sex you probably refering to sexually dominant, and as previously mentioned a good tactic is to not let him have total contol during sex. If you want to be kind of mean to him during sex you can be on top in the cowboy position, and whenyou ae done hop off and leave him, doesn't have to be for long the boy will probably beg for you to come back and continue.