What do you do when fingering someone?

Answer 1

when getting fingered you want to make sure your went and relaxed or else it will hurt. you can do this by making out touching and just fooling around to loosen up your body. once you think your wet enough have him go slow so you get used to it and you relax more. you also get wetter. then eventually your body will get comfortable and after that if you want it would be a good time to have sex but only if your ready and you have a condom

Answer 2

That's totally up to you! Assuming you wanted him in the first place. It's a matter of what each of you wants and expects. He may expect the same kind of attention from you, or you might prefer not to go that far, with that guy on that occasion. The important part for you is to know your mind - i.e. what you do mind, what you don't mind and what you've got a mind to do!

Girls that get into trouble don't normally plan to get into trouble, they end up there without any plan at all. Think about it all before the date. Think about what to do if you find yourself weakening!

Then assuming you are having the kind of fun you wanted, let him know what you enjoy, perhaps by allowing yourself to moan, and what you are not enjoying by saying so. ("NO! Not like that, not yet!" etc.) Don't blame a guy for not knowing what you want him to do, or not to do, if you haven't shared that with him.

As for "What to do while..."; the two of you need to share that information so you both enjoy the event.The guy needs to give you cues as well. Undoing his clothing is a typical cue from guys, who also need to be clear in their intentions.Undoing clothing usually means he expects to go all the way. If that;s not in your plans, let him know where the fence is, and make certain he's ready to respect your decisions.

If you haven't already guessed consider this old joke "Q. What is a guy doing when he's not having sex? A.Thinking of the last time and planning the next time." That's not 100% certain but if you go out thinking that, you might avoid mistakes.

Answer 3

makeout and or jack the guy off. if you just sit there it gets awkward.

Answer 4

Stick your finger(s) in your vagina. When you do it more often it doesn't Hurt as much

Answer 5

he slowly rubs your vagina and then slowly sticks his fingers in your vagina

Answer 6

A guy gets his finger and puts it up a girls vagina and moves it around.

Answer 7

relax and enjoy it.

and return the favor..

Answer 8

a guy puts his fingers in a woman's vagina and moves it around