What do you do if one of friends calls you ugly behind your back?

Answer 1

Just let them know how you feel, don't be rude, nor sudden when you say so. But do not sound too sympathetic, it may cause anger in the one you are telling. Be kind. The best answer can be given if it was known whether or not it was a friend, boyfriend or girlfriend, or a sibling.

Never, ever , tell someone flat out that they are ugly. It's cruel and unecessary . They are many ways to phrase the truth to make it less hurtful. Everyone has at least one attractive trait if you look hard enough. Combine that one thing with a personal attribute , like kindness , intelligence, generosity , gentleness of spirit , whatever, and praise the one attractive feature with their most pleasing trait.Emphasize that , and reassure them that if people judge them on looks alone, they're too shallow to even merit consideration, and that's the truth.

Answer 2

You look them strait in the eye and say i wouldn't be talking. Or you can say that's your opinoin. Or you could say you know what i like how i look and if you don't you'll just have to deal with it

just be like, well you know what roses are red, violets are blue, god made me beautiful, what happened to you!?!?! hahaha then watch their expression!

Answer 3

just take it calmly, don't get frustrated. It's one person, and you know that one person's opinion is not the only opinion in the world. This same thing happened to me before.

I was friends with this guy for a year, and he went behind my back and called me ugly to my best friend. Of course she told me, and I got really upset. I let it bug me for so long, and everywhere I walked I wondered if everyone thought the same thing. But it's not true. 2 months later, i was asked to prom by 3 guys. i chose one and we ended up going out. we broke up after 6 months and in the summer, 2 more guys liked me at the same time.

Not trying to be conceited but im trying to say that you shouldn't let one person bring you down, because what one person says should never matter.

Answer 4

A: if you heard sumone call you ugly, dont listen to what he/she say. just ignore him/her because he/she only said that for 2 reasons 1) he/she is jealous of you or 2) him/her just wanted to get you feeling bad about yourself for a. sumthing you did or didnt do or because b. he/she is just a mean person

Answer 5

Okay. the boy that you like isn't good quality whether or not he knows that you like him, so don't take it to heart. now if he calls you ugly, look insulted. love isn't fair but being treated like crap isn't fair either. say something like "that's a nice thing to say. thankyou." and walk away. if your angry say this, "have you looked in the mirror lately? oh no. that's right. you broke it last time you looked in it. if you start crying. walk away. and honey don't look back. if you really like him and want to keep your relationship strong say this, "Your just jealous because _." take something that your horrible at and put it there. be as sarcastic and laugh it out. then leave as soon as you can. you don't want a 'no you really are ugly.'

Answer 6

"Have you looked in a mirror lately? Oh wait don't you might crack it!"

"Have you looked in a mirror lately? Don't want you having another 7 years bad luck."

"Because your perfect, the only thing you're missing is a paper bag."

"You are in no position to criticize my looks!"

No one is perfect. Point out something about them that isn't perfect.

Or, don't stoop to their level. You can ignore them and to make it even worse, laugh at them for saying such a thing.

Answer 7

For starters, you shouldn't tell them that you think that they are ugly. This would be rude, mean, and inappropriate. It might be best to keep this opinion to yourself.

Answer 8

pretty