Ignore them. Stay away from them. This will show them that it does not bother you and that you are a bigger person then them. This will also show them that whatever they are saying doesn't bother you and eventually they will stop doing it when they see that words don't hurt you.
Ignore them or ask them.
Ask them about it. Ask them in a nice tone, don't go to them with a negative attitude or tone, talk to them, ask them what you did, and why they said it. If its one of your friends, then their not really your friends if their talking about you behind your back.
Good Luck :)
Well personally I would not talk to that person anymore, and just stop being friends with that person.
Another perspective:If I had solid evidence that the person did this, and what was said, I would approach that person and confront them privatley. I would let the person know how cowardly and pathetic such action is, and challenge him/her to confront me directly in the future, assuring him/her that if they repeated the offense again, I would confront him/her is as public a venue as possible, in as loud a voice as possible, in as humiliating a manner as possible for him/her.
just dont be their friend anymore! ______________________ It means you're interesting. Everyone is 'talked about'; relax and enjoy yourself. Life is too short.
I would tell them i do not like that and I would not like them to be my friend any more.
just ignore it...maybe they have no topic to talk to...unless they dont harm u...
Choose friends that don't do that. Also, don't do things that are worth talking about behind your back. Ultimately, you can not control other people's actions, only your own.
I can't tell you why your friend was talking behind your back but I can tell you that real friends don't talk behind their friend's back. You should let your friend know how you feel about this and that it is an act of betrayal.
When a person talks behind your friends back , just tell them , drop it . Don't talk bad about your friend while he|she is talking about that person it shows signs of disrespect & fake .
gossiping
Unless you have been known to do interesting and unusual actions or are not liked by your friends, probably not you. If they are talking about you, they would probably discuss any funny moments you have been involved in; making fun of you is not usually what they would do.
then you need to give it to him straight, either u stop talking behind my back or we can never be best friends again because you really don't want a best friend whose going to talk behind your back, all that does is start drama (trust me I've been there) so i hoped I've helped you!
Well, if your "friends" are suddenly whispering and leaving you and giving you dirty looks then they're probably mad at you or annoyed at something you did. So they're probably talking behind your back and telling others. But if your friends are opened to you, invite you to things talk to you and are nice and opened they most likely don't have a problem with and won't talk about you behind your back. hope that helps!
Honestly you don't, but you trust that they don't because they're your friends. That's how it works. If you suspect your friends of talking about you behind your back then you either don't have the best friends or are just a little too worried about things like this. If you're really that worried perhaps you should talk to them about it, but if it is just you worrying then they may not appreciate your concerns.
You should tell them you thought you trusted them, and if they are really your friends they shouldn't talk about you behind your back.
Confort them about how you feel and then take some time away. give yourself some space to access the situation. people no matter who they are will always say things about someone they love, behind their back because they dont want to hurt their feelings and this is something you wont be able to stop no matter how ard you try. you will have to deal with the situation, just know that these are your friends and family and after you confort them about talking behind your back they may tell you things you may not want hear about yourself that they are worried about. Ask your friends and family if they are talking behind your back so you can find out if they are so you don't have to worry about it anymore. When several or a lot of people think badly about a person it's because there's one person saying things about them so you should find out if that's what happened and if that's what happened and the people who were talking behind your back realize that that they'll stop or else maybe someone else who said it originally. Tell them to stop talking behind your back ofcourse!
everyone is different, everyone has different boundaries with friends, so it is different for everyone. for me its lying and talking behind their back. lying to a friend is the worst thing as well as talking behind their back. never ever do this to a friend because they will find out eventually from someone and it wont end pretty.
cut them off.if they are going behind your back, then they certainly arent your friend.