What do you do when you are dumped?

Answer 1

When you are dumped you should keep moving forward . First, I think you should feel bad, but then as you start getting over it, stop thinking about the past, and start thinking about the future. at least, that's what i did. I have been dumped on numerous occasions (which is sad for me, but I am married now, so hang in there). What I always found helpful is to go out and get a new haircut. I know this sounds strange, but it gives you a new outlook. And it's something that the ex isn't a part of. So you are moving forward in your life. I also buy something new. Like a blanket, shirt, shoes, pillow or whatever tickles your fancy at the time. That way when you look at it, it doesn't remind you of the ex. I would also suggest putting away anything the ex gave you or that reminds you of them. I don't mean throw it away, because one day you will bring it out and remember all the good times. Yes, the good times will shine through in the future. Do not sit around and listen to "your" song and other sad music that reminds you of them. You need to get involved in something new and fun. Take a dance class, an exercise class. Join a group. This will get you out there and keep you occupied. Everything happens for a reason. You must remember that you are probably much better off... and trust me, you will see this in the future.