What do you do when you like a guy that already has a girlfriend?

Answer 1

If he's married or engaged, stay away. If you know for a fact that he's in a long-term, exclusive relationship, you might also do the same. He's already spoken for. Making a move on him would be dishonest. But if he's not committed to anyone, if he's just merely "serially monogomous," then you could make a move on him. Let him know you're available and interested. If he's interested, he'll make a move on you. If you are the aggressive type, you could ask him flat out what his situation is and whether he's dating or seeing other people. His current girlfriend might not give you the same advice <grin>, but hers is not exactly an unbiased opinion. His attitude about dating other women is her problem. All is fair in love and war.

Answer 2

In my opinion and based on my own personal experience, if a guy already has a girlfriend or a wife, don't get involved with him, no matter how much you like him. Any guy who would either cheat on his current relationship or leave his current relationship to be with is very likely to end up cheating on you or leaving you. It's asking for trouble, even if you really, really are into the guy. Try to meet a single guy and forget about Mr. Unavailable. Believe me, I've "been there, done that" and even though I got some really great heartbreak songs and poetry out of the relationship, it was really painful to be involved with someone and to be the "other woman". I've learned my lesson and I hope you can also learn from my mistake!!!

Answer 3

You should hang around him sometimes and see what he likes. If he has a little posse, join it. Find out what he likes in a girl, but don't lose who you are along the way. If he breaks up with his girl friend, call him or ask him out, but do it quick or else he might get taken again and you'll have to move on.

Answer 4

You tell them how feel about them anyways and maybe the feeling is mutual and yall could start a new relationship