What do you do when a friend turns on you?

Answer 1

you tell them ....do they like you ,if they hang out with ya all the time they probably do .

so hold there hand or get close to them they will get the picture

This is happening to me right now, my best friend who has been by my side all along has gotten meaner since we moved up a grade. She said "This year, I want to change I want to be a nicer person this year " And I said "Go for it!" But its only the end of the 1st week of school and she is sooooo not improving instead she got meaner. When we were shopping for food with my other friends after school, she asked me "Are you keeping any secrets from us?" all because there is a girl in my class who they hate/use to be friends with. I said "No, I told you yesterday." My friends had a suspicious look on their faces except my other good friend. Then she said "Friends arent suppose to keep secrets from each other." and I said "Ok Im not lying though." Apparently, that showed me that they dont trust me. As we entered the store, I said "Hey" to a male classmate of mine and my best friend started saying out loud like 20 times that I like the guy I said hey to. Its called being respectful to everyone around you. That girl isnt being any respectful to me, she is just being plain rude. Then later she whispered things behind my back to my other friends. In my head I thought "You are such a liar girl, You have no right to even live." I was VERY angry and upset. Tears started to fall from my eyes and my other friend said "Hey, shes crying" to my so called best friend. My ex best friend said "Oh my god, fine fine." She tried to pat my back for me to calm down and by her face, I could tell she really was annoyed. She was about to pat my back when I slapped her arm away. I couldnt take it anymore, this girl was getting on my nerves. I ran out of the store trying not to think about how terrible she was. On my way out, I heard her say "What kinda friend is she!?" and I thought "What kind of friend are you!? Think about yourself before you start blabbering your duck mouth about people. Online, I tried to message her a sorry letter. She wrote "Your nothing but a crybaby." That was it. I knew for once that girl with no life has no feelings either.

What you should do:

1) Try apologizing to your friend

2) If they dont accept your apology Move on (Come on! There are other girls in this world who wont turn on you!)

3) Talk it out with another friend and have them think of a solution for you.

4) Find new friends and move on with them.. soon your old friend will understand the way you feel to be treated like garbage.

~Thank you for reading my story~ ♥ Shayminx3 [Good Luck!♥]

Answer 2

If you think that you two will make up and be back to normal someday, I recommend you try to propose a meeting/time to talk with them to see what is wrong and why did you guys have to turn out like this. It doesn't hurt to talk with them to see what is up, if they still are being a jerk to you, then I recommend you to just try to stand up for yourself and make new friends or just stay neutral. If they won't leave you alone, always stand up for yourself and don't try to provoke them into hating you a lot more. Try ignoring them if you must. If that doesn't work then lastly, and yet I hate this option but talk to someone else such as an adult, if you hate this idea then just talk to another friend or someone you feel comfortable talking with about this matter to see if they can help you out. I hope you will be able to solve this problem.

Answer 3

I know this isn't what you expect but your really shouldn't do anything. It's not worth a fight. If your friend turns on you it's her loss and i guess she is not really her friend. Treat he/she the way she treats you but don't draw the line with it to the point were you're going out of your way to bother them.

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This is my Opinion but I think you should leave them alone. (I've dealt with a with someone or a group of people like that, and they told me because I get mad or something related to that. And two of them are much worse than me. And luckily only one of them told me why they turned on me. Anyway apparently it was a twisted cold-hearted and cruel so-called joke that was anything but nice). Anyway if a friend turns on you I suggest you should leave them alone.

Answer 4

they arent really your friend so forget them VANESSA