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A host.

A Source for his/her selfish supply, unwilling to give you any supply back and with no concern how you will get supply.

someone who says "I'm sorry" alot.

someone who works so hard at getting it right, pleasing, taking care of but never getting it done right. someone easy to turn around after they've had enough and is complaining or leaving. keeping you desperate for love they give out a little when they need to keep you from leaving.

someone who feels responsible for making the other happy, comfortable, away from consequences, cleans up their mess and loves to serve expecting nothing in return with no complaints.

someone pre-programmed to be used.

someone programmed to think this is what normal looks like.

someone whose first guess is usually that something wrong is their fault and they go fix it without even being asked, they feel guilty and obligated and kept in fear of punishment or further withholding of love.

ANSWERThemselves.

Someone spineless, willing to put up with anything.

Themselves. They will look in the mirror and sing to themselves the Sinead O'connor song 'Nothing compares to you'.

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