Only he knows. But could be he is scared that they will really like you and he will feel pressured. . Or he may be afraid of what they will do. Or he may just want to be the center of attention and is worried that you and the daughters will become Friends and he will be left out. Or he may just not know that its something that bothers you and he thinks its no big deal. You know him, any of those sound possible?
widower
The proper spelling is widowed (a spouse has died).
If you're female - you're a widow. If you're male - you're a widower. You can also use 'widowed' in either case.
Yes. A man whose wife has died is a widower.
When used as a verb the past tense is the same for both sexes - widowed. When used as a noun the male term is widower.
It means that a person's spouse (husband or wife) has died. A widow is a woman whose husband has died. Widowed is the adjective form. (A man whose wife dies is a widower.) "Widowed" also can mean one line on a page - it couldn't fit on the page before. It probably derives from the loneliness of the widow.
The cast of The Widow and the Widower - 1913 includes: Lillian Langdon as The Widow Wilfred Lucas as The Widower Bess Meredyth as One of the Children Eleanor Woodruff as The Actress
The widower. Unless, of course, they killed your friend.
Carrie was the adoptive mother of her widower husbands son and daughter, but she had no children of her own.
In English there are no masculine or feminine forms. English uses gender specific nouns for male or female, for example:The noun for a male whose spouse had died is widower.The noun for a female whose spouse had died is widow.
I would address it John Smith and family
The deceased spouse remains the spouse, so the deceased would be referred to as "husband" or as "wife" after the spouse died. So for example: Mary was newly widowed, her husband having died last month. The widower, John, freely admitted he still loved and missed his wife. The widow met the widower at a church social six months after her husband and his wife, respectively, had died of natural causes. In the 1800s a widower married soon after burying his wife, especially if there were minor children. A widow in the 1800s was less likely to remarry after her husband's death, unless she too had minor children. However, widow and widower are not "opposites", but simply terms used to describe the marital/legal status of someone who, while still married, experienced the death of the spouse. Widow and Widower, therefore, are descriptive terms just like Single, Married, Divorced, Never Married. Each denotes a different relational state.