What does it mean when she says the feeling is mutual but is not ready to date?

Don't you just hate it when people are so indecisive? I love people to get to the point and just spit it out! It could mean so many things. Perhaps there are a few good reasons such as the person has been a victim of rape, sexual abuse or another thought that came to mind, the person has HIV or Herpes. Anyone of those reasons is extremely personal and hard for that person to discuss. I'm not saying this is the reason behind this girl not dating you, but if you really think you care for each other and without pressing her too much, try going for a quiet walk and asking her a few more questions. She may tell you and she may not. Good luck Marcy