What does unselfhness?

Answer 1

If one is not centred, then that is unselfishness.

Centre exists even though one makes his circle larger and larger. This is termed as selfishness. The centre is nothing but the ego. Even when I do service to others it is to be done without a centre. This alone will be termed as unselfishness. Suppose you do such service and getting proud of doing so then it is only selfishness. By doing you get some fame and you think that by doing such things you can get back at some other time. So when you help others don't think that he is different from you. When you feel so then there comes two centres. You simple do it as it is a natural activity which goes on its own accord.