If the daughter is no longer living with her mother, and is independent, then you could petition to end child support. If she is still in highschool, you might continue to pay with the agreement that the money transfers from mother to daughter.
no unless he can not support the child
No, that is what the family room or living room are for. Why encourage unseemly behavior?
The answer to this will depend on which country you are living in.
you dont need to (this is just my opinion) let your daughter make mistakes of her own and pay for them on her own
HELL NO!! Especially when it comes to your child. You should not be with someone who treats you like that. I hope he still does not do that while you are living with him.
I mean no offense, but it surprises me that you need advice from others on this. If your daughter is living with you at home it is simply a matter of presenting him [the boyfriend] with the facts as you know them. Even if your daughter is an adult and living outside of your home, you are dealing with family relationships. Do it with your daughter's knowledge and permission if possible, but do it without if necessary. Abusers rarely change, and the abused party often becomes protective of the abuser. The cycle isn't going to be broken unless some tough love is applied. If your daughter's other parent is in the picture, do it as a team.
I believe he needs to go to court and get that changed. What could happen is the Mother can claim he neglected to pay, and he would have to pay the Mother what he has already paid the daughter. If you call your local family law office, I'm sure they can answer that more in detail.
If he is the biological or adoptive father of your two children, yes, you can take him to court for child support. But if he is just your 'boyfriend' and has no other biological or legal relationship to your children, probably not.
Why do you need to do anything with her? She is 23 - not 13. She is an adult and she can live with her boyfriend if she wants to. In fact I recommend living together before marrying - it is easier to break up with someone if you are incompatible than it is to divorce them. She needs to live her own life. You have raised her to adulthood - now let her make her own mistakes and hope that the guidance you have given her so far will be enough.
Well, generally, that's the rule of thumb in custody changes.
Clarification needed. Are we talking about living with a 17-year-old son, daughter, grandchild, boyfriend/girlfriend, sibling, or friend? It's going to be a different experience in each case. What is the question?
NO THIS IS NOT LEGAL. The mother is suppose to report that to the child support agency. Whenever the child moves out of the home and into another, it needs to be reported. And because the child is living with the boyfriend, the circumstance is even that much more difficult. In this case, i would clasify the girl as being emancipated. But, just to let you know the child support agency does not retro the payments. So all the payments dad made to mom, dad will not get it back.Hope this helps!?