I have a Motorola Q9m too and it did not come with a CD either. Your best option is to buy a CD from a certain website or your local retailer.
the restart bottom is in the back :)
i have the Motorola q cdma, that's what the version i have is called... so no not all are called that there is also the q9m and q9c i think i might have the 9qc im not sure...
palm centro 690 or motorola Q9m. theyre smart phones but older so they dont require a data package