What if your man say he don't know if he love you anymore?

Answer 1

When He Says "I May Not Love You"

There are two routes you could take. The first is:

Wait! Talk On the other hand, you could do this:

Believe him! Don't make excuses for why he may have said that and don't tell yourself he didn't mean it and don't think for a minute that anything you say or do will change things because it won't. I know it's difficult and we all have the tendency to think that if we just do or say the "right" things or a person who sits around waiting for something that has little chance of happening. Develop other interests and plan to do things that don't include him. I'm not saying you need to do all of!Good luck to you.

Input from other WikiAnswers contributors:

• If you choose the first route, if he tells you the same thing after you talk to him, tell him his time is up. If he says that he fell out of love with you and does not know if that love is not there anymore, he is just a waste of your time then.

• There's not a future with someone who doesn't feel a connection with you any longer. Hanging on to the relationship is like clinging to a sinking ship. It's in both of your best interests to end the relationship.

• Help him find his way to the exit door, and move on. The sinking ship comment was right on target.

ANSWER

Pretty much everyone is stupid. No matter how forgiving he is, or how he would to anything for you, etc don't take advantage of how he is. you may think I'm being stupid to say that because you think you could never possibly think you would do that. You may be doing it without even realizing you are. Make sure when you get into a relationship that it is balanced when it comes to those things. No matter what you think or feel, when a relationship is not balanced it never really works out well in the end. Don't struggle or look for the "I love you" to come to you. Try not to hint at it and pressure him, because when you start saying it, he may feel uncomfortable because those three words mean so much and when he actually does love you he may second guess himself from all the pressure. literally you don't necessarily need to ask if he really means it because in the end you will just be searching and when he says it, you will know the answer. the hard part is actually believing yourself. Your heart and mind think very differently. your heart may try to find what it wants to hear, but your mind is skeptical and knows the truth. believe in your mind with tough things like this, but act with your heart. I'm sure it will work out fine. remember...one can't be true in a relationship when they aren't happy being single. you are young, don't depend on this guy to balance your emotionally mindset. And yes love has an age. before you mature you don't think rationally it is all fogged up and its all about what you see, not the reality. your emotions take complete control because of such a strong bond between the sexes. be smart and think before you act. and at one point you will get out of this mind fog and you may feel as if your feelings aren't strong (I love you but I'm not in love with you)..don't take it that way it just means he may be maturing, settling, and understanding things a lot better. don't lose that bond because in the end what's the difference between having a best guy friend( as if he is family) and boyfriend. the title that is it. don't kill that great friendship because of not understanding his mental processes and actions, for you do not no what is happening in his mind. good luck (enjoy the present don't dwell on the imminent future)

Answer 2

"The demand to be safe in relationship inevitably breeds sorrow and fear. This seeking for security is inviting insecurity. Have you ever found security in any of your relationships? Have you? Most of us want the security of loving and being loved, but is there love when each one of us is seeking his own security, his own particular path? " for full text, see "JK on Love" on left

Answer 3

Ask him what he means. He is sending mixed messages. Tell him, he needs time to clear his mind. You need time to determine if you want to still date him because he is not clear anymore about his intentions.

Answer 4

First off you can't just ask him point blank "do you love me" because guys hate being put on the spot like that, but you could tell him the way you feel and if he responds you can just read between the lines.

Answer 5

break up with him before he breaks up with you

Answer 6

first you should ask him if he does. don't freak out over a hunch you have about something. if he doesn't love you... well then move on. plenty of other guys out there.

Answer 7

THEN TELL HIM HES GAY AND LEAVE HIM!

Answer 8

Leave him before you are left.

Answer 9

if he is not kind to you