It probably isn't that big of a deal for now, and it might even be healthy. If he is scared of him, hopefully he will be really, really careful not to hurt you. If your boyfriend sticks around and you guys have a multi-year relationship or decide to get married, then you should get your boyfriend and your dad to spend some time together (without you) and get to know one another better so that they can work on that relationship. Maybe have them go golfing, or get them tickets to a sports game, or whatever they both like.
Well, some reasonable steps to take are:
1) Try to have your dad establish an understanding of why you love your boyfriend.
2) If he doesn't approve, have him talk to his parents.
3) If he doesn't or does but still doesn't approve, try to find some good qualities about him and proove them to your dad.
4) If he just doesn't like him period, but still lets you date him, don't worry about it, but try to show your dad that your boyfriend isn't bad.
5) See what mom thinks have have your parents talk.
IF your dad doesn't approve in anyway, do not:
1) Secret Date
2) Start arguments or fights
3) Hate your father
4) Move out
If you find no solution and your dad doesn't approve, then you'll have to tell your boyfriend that your dad doesn't approve of him, and that you'll have to look for someone else.
Before you do any of those steps, you should
0) find out what, specifically, your dad doesn't like about him. Never ignore the possibility that your dad may in fact be seeing his true personality more clearly than you are.
try to understand why he doesnt like him, see it from his point of view.... or look for things your boyfriend and your dad have in common, then get them together an let them talk the night away even if you end up late for you dinner date, its less stressfull and a win win situation.
Is itnreally that complicated it means the mom doesnt trust him but the dad does
Sounds like your dad wants to be your first, let him down gently.
yes i think that's the best thing to do or her dad just doesnt like you yes i think that's the best thing to do or her dad is just saying that because he doesnt like you don't let him get in the way i think you should find out if she does have a boyfriend but if not go and take a chance
Depends, what did he threaten him for?
he doesnt like you anymore
No, that's a simile. Similes compare, metaphors equate. Her boyfriend is LIKE a dad, that's a comparison. Her boyfriend IS (let us say) a gorilla; that's a metaphor.
well you should think about why doesnt your dad want you to be with him....think about the bad things about him then the good things if the bad outdo's the good then just explain to your dad that he's really a nice guy......when u get to know the boy more and your feelings for each other are getting strong invite him and let you dad meet him
just be yourself and if he doesnt like that then he isnt worth it
You got to know that he doesnt like her or him
If he doesn't have a good reason for not having a job, then he should not try free loading with your parents
cause he is a clown
Then what's your problem?