'Bunbering' or to bunber.
It's the effect to cojole someone to believing your intentions are good.
To mislead through a continuous act of well-meaning behavior.
The end result being the mark will have enough trust and act in a way that is friendly toward an otherwise malevolent partner or group.
It's a trick. Act well meaning then pull a fast one.
There seems to be a typo in your question. If you meant "bumbering," it is not a commonly recognized term. Can you provide more context or clarification?