Well it matters. If it is wines you say al hagafen and the bracha achrona is al hagafen ge al per hagafen
KIDDUSH
The blessing that ends the Jewish Shabbat is called "Havdalah." It marks the separation between the holy day of Shabbat and the rest of the week. During Havdalah, blessings are recited over wine, spices, and a multi-wicked candle.
Havdalah marks the end of Shabbos (Sabbath). It consists of saying a blessing over a cup of wine, a blessing over the smelling of spices (many people use powdered cinnamon), a blessing over the gift of fire (a braided candle is traditionally used), and a final blessing for the departure of the Shabbos, after which some of the wine should be drunk (two ounces or more).
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No. The wine is an intrinsic component of the wedding, being associated with the group of seven blessings recited under the canopy during the ceremony. But the wine is not understood as beginning a meal at that time. The conclusion of the ceremony is typically followed by a festive meal that begins with the blessing over bread, often recited over a large, ornate challah.
Havdallah marks the end of Sabbath or a festival. It consists of making a blessing over the cup of wine, a blessing over spices, a blessing over the flame of a multi-wicked candle (or two candles brought together), and a blessing marking the end of the day. These blessings can be found in the Sidur (prayerbook). The blessing over the flame is said only after the Sabbath, not after a festival.
Havdallah marks the end of Sabbath or a festival. It consists of making a blessing over the cup of wine, a blessing over spices, a blessing over the flame of a multi-wicked candle (or two candles brought together), and a blessing marking the end of the day. These blessings can be found in the Sidur (prayerbook). The blessing over the flame is said only after the Sabbath, not after a festival.
Havdallah marks the end of Sabbath or a festival. It consists of making a blessing over the cup of wine, a blessing over spices, a blessing over the flame of a multi-wicked candle (or two candles brought together), and a blessing marking the end of the day. These blessings can be found in the Sidur (prayerbook). The blessing over the flame is said only after the Sabbath, not after a festival.
Most bar mitzvahs are celebrated at a Saturday morning synagogue service. After the service, there is frequently a kiddush luncheon -- that is, a luncheon that begins with the kiddush blessing over bread and wine. Later, that evening, it is common (but not universal) to have a bar mitzvah party starting with Havdalah, the blessing marking the end of the Sabbath day.
The bride and groom take turns drinking wine from the Kiddush cup during the Jewish wedding ceremony.
by the blessing of bread and wine, and the consumption after
Yes, but not in excess (Proverbs ch.30). Wine is used in many Jewish occasions, including the Kiddush blessing at the start of the festive meals on the Sabbath and festivals.
Which Jewish ceremony? Bris (circumcisioin)? Havdalah (the end of the Sabbath)? Kiddush (the blessing over wine and bread that starts a Sabbath or festival meal)? Candle lighting (at the start of the Sabbath or a festival)? Tahara (the washing of a corpse before burial)? There are many many more.