What is the best way for a 14-year-old boy to break up with his girlfriend?
Be sure she knows this isn't because you just want to be with
someone else, and that its not her fault...If she thinks that your
blaming you two's break-up on her she will most likely become very
angry and defensive, thus more likely to:
a) gossip and lie b) become more hurt than needed [and feel
Both of you are on the young side and I am glad to hear that you
want to break-up at this point. Both of you have a lot of dating
ahead of you so please don't rush into things.
The best policy to break-off with someone is honesty. Whatever
your reasons are just tell this young girl and hopefully she will
understand. If not, then you still will have to walk away from this
relationship and she will get over it in time. Be kind, say you
want to remain friends, but if she doesn't want to remain friends
with you don't take it personally as she may get very hurt and
Don't split-up around other people. Either sit somewhere quiet
and give her your reasons for splitting up or go for a walk. It's
an embarrassing situation for the girl (or boy) at times, and you
don't want to make things worse.
Remember, just be honest and speak from the heart.
Good Luck Marcy
in the first place i dnt think a 14 year old boi or girl should be
dating...i mean y waste ur time datin someone you know your not
going to stay with?? jux the reason for dating someone is to get to
know the person so u can choose to stay with him or not...thats the
whole point...not even if youre in highschool i think you should be
dating...i mean when hav you ever heard a 14 and 13 year old gettin
married with their present bf or gf in ...what?...probably 7
years?! i dnt think so sry
Dude, coming from experience, just go up and tell her. But
don't act like a jerk while doing it.
The best way to do it, is just to tell her what's up and be
straight forward. if you lie, she'll find out so you best not do
it!! good luck
when you ar e 14 your relationship is not that serious trust me
i know but the thing is i am engagted and was engaged when i was 14
so i have no room to talk but to be honest just tell her how it is
sand say we have our whole future ahead of us and i dont want us to
be slowed down best of luck.