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The easiest way to grind is butt to crotch. Just press your butt against where you think his is and move your body to the rhythm of the music. Don't press too hard on his ! Remember this is a sensitive area! You don't want him to be uncomfortable. If you feel him moving you a little it is probably because you are pressing TOO HARD. Think of it as massaging his crotch with your butt. Make sure you move with the music. If you have trouble finding the beat, then try just moving your body with his. If you are going to do this, then make sure you press up pretty hard against him, so that your movements still feel good for him. If you're good at moving to the beat and you really like the guy, then try dancing with just one of your buttcheeks pressed very firmly on his crotch. He will probably use his hands to guide your body to exactly where he wants it when he realizes what you're doing. Let him. Guys get really confused if you start doing really sexual dancing, but won't let them touch you with their hands.

If the guy turns you around and wants to dance crotch to crotch, then you can either straddle each others legs or you can dance between his legs. wrap your arms around his neck, and if staring into his eyes is too awkward for you, just rest your head on his shoulder/chest. If you're straddling each other then just think of it as rhythmic dry humping. Press your crotch against his and do whatever feels good for both of you. if you are dancing between his legs (this is usually what happens if the guy is a lot taller than the ) then press your body against his and either move your hips in circles or roll your entire torso all over him. You may even want to put your arms around his waist instead of his neck if he is significantly taller.

What to do about those hands?

If the guy touches you somewhere that you are not comfortable with, then don't hesitate to move his hands. just gently place your hand over his and slide it to a place where you are more comfortable with him touching you (like your hips). if you don't want him touching you at all, then try holding his hands (away from your body). That way you don't feel uncomfortable and he doesn't feel rejected. if the guy rests his head on your shoulder, put your hand on the back of his neck or run your fingers through his hair. if he touches you somewhere that you really enjoy, encourage him by interlocking your fingers with his or giving his hand a gentle squeeze (this lets him know its okay to give your butt or thigh or breast or wherever he has his hand a little squeeze too).

Final Advice:

Don't do it if it doesn't feel good. Don't be afraid to sweat. Don't worry about who's watching. Don't freak out if he gets an erection.

Do make sure you smell nice if you know you're going out grinding (spray perfume in your hair or on your clothing, it wont taste good on your skin if he starts kissing/sucking/nibbling your neck and shoulders). Do wear clothing that won't get in the way of your bodies being against each other (large belt buckles are a bad idea. Do try to keep your feet planted firmly on the ground.

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The easiest way is butt to crotch where the guy will start out with hands low on the hips. Usually if the girl wants to grind she'll begin in a figure eight motion to the beat of the music. Don't press to hard! If the girl begins to press up onto the guy with one buttcheeck then the guy will use his hands to guide her exactly where he wants it. If you don't feel the other person then try grinding a little harder to get them into it and make a little soft sex noise. It might help. Don't be conserned if the guy gets a boner it makes the grinding better for the girl and the guy if you work with it.

Now for the hands! A girl can just dance with her hands in the air especially if she's not very interested in the guy. If she is a little more interested then she'll put her hands over his on her hips. Now if the guy wants to feel the girl he has to slowly move his hands a few different areas. Either to her inner thigh, in her crotch, to her butt, or to her boob. If the girl wants him to touch her more, she can gently guide his hands to wear she wants them. The girl should either respond by moving his hands to a different spot or back to her hips, or leaning further into the grind if she likes it. If this happens then the guy should give a little massage to the area. The girl will really enjoy this and probably give you a better grind.

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