He felt the best way to punish himself was to bring himself torment from confessing his sin
Why would you want to contact your abuser is the best answer to your question? It's probably best if you sever all ties to an abuser. Instead find a good therapist and start going to a twelve step group like Co-Dependents Anonymous.
The best thing that family can do for a substance abuser is stage an intervention. Once that intervention has been staged, present the abuser with the opportunity to go to rehab.
Yes, he punish his elf. This is one way why he punish. When they are bad. When they do something wrong. The punish them by going basement and let them stay there and they don't even get food.
Animal Abuser or Animal Cruelty Abuser
depends what you are punishing them for and how old they are. Put them in a Saw trap. No escape. Just one big game.
If you get back at ur parents they are goanna punish you MORE,,,,BAD IDEA,,,,,BUT ALSO FUN hahaha :)
No he is not a child abuser.
Belt him across the a$$ with a cane.. I did ;)
Your best action is to leave him. He's not going to change. Seek legal advice and get away.
Often the best thing to do with a drug abuser is an intervention where those that love him or her tell them how the addiction is affecting them. Counseling or halfway houses are an option as well.
Unless your ex has a police record/jail time for DV, there would be no way to tell. A private Detective can access old records.