Example : Mr & Mrs Edward J. Flynn Jr.
Mr & Mrs James Angstrom Jr.
dr Mary smith would be the correct way
Major and Mrs . . .
You write “Dr and Mrs. Smith”
If the letter/invitation is primarily to the reverend but also her husband: Rev. Mary Smith and Mr. John Smith If the letter/invitation is primarily to the husband but includes the wife: Mr. John Smith and Rev. Mary Smith If it is strictly a business letter and not church related: Mr. & Mrs. John Smith
Just address the card to Mr and Mrs (husband's name). It's perfectly okay to address the husband and wife but to avoid offending the wife just do the Mr and Ms last name and you're probably safe.
Addressing letter for a husband and wife team:Mr. & Mrs. John DoeDrs. John and Jane DoePastors John and Jane DoeManagers, John and Jane Doe
Dear Mr. (name) and Mrs (name)
Mr. and Dr. Joseph Smith (indicates the wife is the doctor)
If the Pastor who is the third and not a Junior is the only Pastor then you address him and his wife: Pastor & Mrs. John Doe. If all three were Pastors then you would address the letter as: Pastor John Doe,III & Mrs. John Doe.
You would use the first name of the husband and the first name of the wife. This is how you address a Japanese married couple through a letter.
Please be more specific about their professions. We DO want to help.