In speech? Probably "Madam, sir, sir." In a letter, what sort of a household are you writing to? For such a configuration, I'd begin any letter simply as "dear friends" or "dear three musketeers" and leave it at that.
the correct salutation for two men is Messrs
Dear Counselors,
Mr. Rick Miles and Mr. Denny Neessen
If you are addressing several men and women in a letter, then the salutation can be 'Dear Ladies and Gentlemen'. Another salutation can be 'Sirs and Madams'. These types of salutations can be used for men and women that are on a committee.
Gentlemen:
The proper salutation to address two men in a letter is "Dear Mr. [Last Name] and Mr. [Last Name]," using their last names. If they have different titles, you should use their respective titles, such as "Dear Dr. [Last Name] and Mr. [Last Name]." If you are unsure of their titles, simply using "Dear [First Name] and [First Name]" is also acceptable for a more informal approach.
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I would use "Ladies and Gentleman" or if it is just women "Ladies" or if it was just men" Gentleman" if that makes any sense. Hope this suggestion helps you.
Men of the Fighting Lady was created in 1955.
Lady Elizabeth's Men ended in 1632.
Example using Smith as last name of both men:Dear Messrs. Smith,orDear Mssrs. SmithMessrs. and Mssrs. are both the plural of Mr. and either one is correct.