Aunt Alexandra feels that scout and Jem are being brought up the wrong way. Atticus' parenting methods are different to what she knows, and are therefore not the right way. Throughout the book Alexandra becomes the voice of the Maycomb community in the Finch household, she held tea parties, and was racist, because that was "the norm" at that time. Atticus brings up his children like they are adults so that they are able to deal with life's difficulties from an early age, probably because he is a lawyer, and chooses to defend a black man because he knows this is the right thing to do. Because of his choice, the children are subjected to abuse from other children. Alexandra thinks (privately) that they should not be exposed to this abuse, so follows the herd and stays racist, though really she trusts her brother, and believes that he did the right thing.
Scout feels resentful and uncomfortable about Aunt Alexandra's arrival as she brings with her strict social expectations and a traditional view of femininity that contradict Scout's independent and tomboyish nature. Scout sees Aunt Alexandra as a barrier to her freedom and individuality.
Scout and Jem are unhappy about having Aunt Alexandra as a visitor, especially since her visit seems to have no end date. She is critical, harsh, disapproving, and they feel she does not understand children.
Scout feels Aunt Alexandra is just there to be her female role model, which of course Scout feels she doesn't need to be a lady. Scout's perfectly fine hanging out with the boys Jem and Dill which influences her to be more masculine.
Alexandra is their aunt
Dissapointed
Scout feels more at home in her father's world because he nurtures her individuality and treats her with respect and understanding, while Aunt Alexandra expects her to conform to traditional societal roles and expectations. Atticus values her curiosity and independence, making Scout feel accepted and appreciated for who she truly is.
not happy
Miss Maudie shows Scout kindness during Aunt Alexandra's tea by comforting her and offering her cake to help her feel better. Miss Maudie understands the difficulties Scout is facing and tries to make her feel more at ease in a stressful situation.
Jem tries to make Scout feel better by reminding her of Atticus' love for her and how Aunt Alexandra's opinions don't diminish that. He reassures Scout that their father's understanding and affection for them are more important than anything else. Jem also tries to distract Scout by suggesting they play together after their conversation with Aunt Alexandra.
Jem showed Scout a snowman made from dirt and snow to make her feel better after her disagreement with Aunt Alexandra. He even put a hat and some twigs on the snowman to make it look like Mr. Avery.
Jem tries to make Scout feel better by reassuring her that their father, Atticus, is doing the best he can and that Aunt Alexandra might not understand everything. He also suggests they go see Miss Maudie for some comfort and wisdom.
Aunt Alexandra is rather pushy, and she wants to raise Scout differently than she's currently being raised. Both Atticus and Scout are sensible people, but don't feel the change is necessary, and despite his sister having the best intentions, she doesn't quite understand that they're happy the way they are, or why that is ok.
Jem tries to make Scout feel better by reassuring her that Aunt Alexandra doesn't understand the situation like they do. He reminds her of their closeness and sisterly bond, showing empathy and support. Jem also suggests they continue to stick together and not let Aunt Alexandra's words affect them.
The woman at Cal's church who made Scout feel unwelcome was Lula. She criticized and questioned Scout's presence at the African American church service, causing discomfort for Scout and Cal.
He loved her!
The death of the narrator's mother in "To Kill a Mockingbird" affected Scout by making her feel more connected to her father, Atticus, and brother, Jem, as they navigated the challenges of their lives without her. It also deepened Scout's understanding of loss and empathy for others who were suffering. Additionally, the absence of her mother contributed to shaping Scout's identity and independence as she grew up.
Scout feels guilty at school after her teacher, Miss Caroline, scolds her for being able to read and write. This incident makes Scout feel bad for making Miss Caroline embarrassed in front of the class.