What is the term for a divorced gay man?

Answer 1

There is no special term for this.

Divorcee is the appropriate term for any person who is divorced. It is derived from the French terms of divorcée for a divorced woman and divorcé for a divorced man.

Modern usage has dropped the accent marks and divorcee, although in past usage typically referred to a woman, is now used appropriately in the U. S. to refer to any divorced person. Of course, a special term is really not needed. One can simply refer to a divorced person as divorced. A gender based term for that status is truly unnecessary.