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You need to understand that the controlling will only become worse if he does not get therapy, and may eventually lead to violence.

Suggest that both of you attend sessions, and tell him why. Your school may offer counseling at reduced rates or for free. If he refuses, give serious thought to ending the relationship. Without major changes, you are headed toward a lifetime of misery.

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Q: What should I do if I'm in college and I have a controlling boyfriend but I'm attempting to save the relationship because I really do love him?
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